Butler

An UHNW private household is seeking an experienced Butler to deliver exceptional, personalized service to the principals, their family, and guests. The ideal candidate demonstrates refined butler skills, impeccable attention to detail, and a strong understanding of formal service, household protocol, and luxury hospitality. This individual will anticipate needs, uphold the highest service standards, and coordinate seamlessly with household staff to ensure an exceptional experience at home, during travel, and at private events.

Responsibilities

• Provide refined butler service, including formal and informal dining, beverage service, and guest reception.
• Maintain exceptional standards of table presentation, etiquette, and VIP guest service.
• Coordinate daily service requirements with the House Manager and household staff.
• Prepare and organize dining areas, serve meals and refreshments, and support private entertaining.
• Assist with household organization, inventory, and replenishment of service items.
• Coordinate with chefs, housekeepers, drivers, and vendors to ensure seamless household service.
• Prepare for domestic and international travel, including luggage, personal items, and service arrangements.
• Accompany the family during travel as required, maintaining consistent service standards.
• Assist with private dinners, celebrations, and special events, ensuring all details meet the family’s expectations.
• Anticipate the principals’ and guests’ needs, resolve service-related issues discreetly, and maintain strict confidentiality.

Requirements

• Minimum 10 years of experience in private service, luxury hospitality, or a comparable high-service environment, including at least 5 years supporting a UHNW/HNW family.
• Formal butler training or certification and private estate experience strongly preferred.
• Strong knowledge of formal dining, table service, etiquette, and VIP entertaining.
• Excellent presentation, communication, organization, and attention to detail.
• Ability to anticipate needs, remain composed under pressure, and work effectively within a multi-staff household.
• Exceptional discretion, integrity, professionalism, and understanding of household protocols.
• Hospitality-related education preferred.
• Valid U.S. driver’s license with a clean driving record.
• Successful background check, reference verification, and execution of a nondisclosure agreement (NDA) required.

Schedule: Full-time position based in New York, with domestic and international travel as required.

Salary $110,000 - $160,000, depending on experience and qualifications.