House Manager & Family Assistant

Full-Time House Manager & Family Assistant

Location: Larkspur, CA 94939

Employment Type: Full-Time

Schedule: Monday through Friday, 12:30 PM to 8:30 PM with occasional weekend and overnight coverage

Compensation: $40 to $45 per hour, based on experience

Start Date: September 1, 2026

Requirements

• Maintain a smoke-free and fragrance free environment
• Ability to swim and comfort assisting young children in and around a pool
• Availability for occasional domestic travel with the family
• CPR and First Aid certification preferred

About Our Family

We are an active family of five living in Larkspur with three young children (ages 5 & twin 2 1/2 yrs). Our household is lively and full of energy, with a mom who works from home and a dad who travels frequently for work. With three little ones transitioning into school routines this fall, we are in an exciting and busy season of life.

We love being outdoors together, whether that is swimming in our pool, hiking through nature, or fishing on a quiet morning. Being connected to nature is an important part of our family life. We host family and friends often, and our home tends to have a rotating door of people we love. We value experiences, adventure and creating meaningful memories together.

We thrive when our home runs smoothly behind the scenes. We are looking for someone who can step in and help us create a calmer, more grounded pace to our days, so that the time we have with our children is intentional and fully present.

Our ideal household feels organized, peaceful, and well-stocked. Meals are an important part of our home life, and we love creating a home that feels warm and ready for guests at any time. Whether we're hosting friends for dinner, welcoming out-of-town family, or gathering for a casual weekend get-together, we enjoy having a space that feels cared for and host-ready.

The right person will appreciate the satisfaction that comes from maintaining a well run household, serve as a collaborative partner, and enjoy taking pride in the details to help us to create an environment that supports our family's well-being.

Who You Are / What We Are Looking For

You are calm, grounded, and emotionally intelligent. You have a natural ability to read a room and be discreet in a private home environment. You are proactive, you identify what needs to be done and you do it with care and intention. You pride yourself on being dependable, maintaining professionalism and anticipating needs.

You are a strong, healthy cook who genuinely enjoys preparing nourishing food and prioritizes nutritious meals centered around protein, vegetables and whole ingredients. You are tidy and organized by nature, and you take pride in maintaining a home that feels reset and ready. With children, you're warm and engaging, and you know how to build genuine connections while making daily routines creative and fun. The ability to gamify the little moments, and take real ownership of their needs while under your supervision is highly valued.

You are comfortable in a home that hosts frequently, adapt well to a changing environment, and bring a steady, peaceful presence to a busy household. You thrive in dynamic settings, can shift priorities when needed, and remain calm and organized throughout the day. Experience working in a household with multiple young children is strongly preferred.

While not required, experience enjoying outdoor activities, openness to occasional travel, and Cantonese or Spanish language skills would be a welcomed addition.

Key Qualities Include

Calm, Grounded Presence: Comfortable working in a lively home while keeping a peaceful demeanor

Proactive & Self-Sufficient: Able to efficiently manage the home by taking initiative and anticipating needs without constant direction

High Standards for Tidiness and Routines: Capable of creating and maintaining systems for household organization, tasks and daily routines

Safety Oriented: Strong swimmer and capable of supporting children through various outdoor and sports activities

Healthy Meal Planning + Prep Experience: Confidence cooking nutritious, high-protein meals and limiting processed ingredients

Key Responsibilities

Family Support

• Support childcare for afternoon - evening routines through bedtime with parents
• Engage children in age-appropriate activities; redirect energy and make routines fun and interactive
• Prep backpacks, clothing, lunch boxes and snacks for school days
• Occasional school pickup or drop-off as backup support
• Occasional travel support with the family (domestic, as needed)
• Provide weekly date-night childcare coverage, including managing the children's evening routine and bedtime
• Kid-related errands as needed

Meal Support

• Grocery shopping
• Plan and prepare family-friendly dinners most evenings; prioritizing high-protein, whole-food ingredients and minimizing processed foods. Ensure dinner is ready by 6:00PM to support a smooth and consistent evening routine
• Prepare daily school lunches for all three children
• Assist with hosting prep including marinating, prepping ingredients, and setting up for gatherings
• Kitchen clean-up and ongoing maintenance

Household Organization & Maintenance

• Daily resets throughout the home; tidy surfaces, dishes, and high-traffic areas
• Create and maintain household organization systems
• Indoor plant care
• Seasonal clothing swaps and donation coordination
• Replace batteries, light bulbs, and smoke detector batteries as needed
• Event, holiday, and guest prep including school needs, gift wrapping, and party support
• Packing and unpacking assistance for family travel as needed

Laundry & Linens

• Wash, fold, and organize laundry in coordination with house cleaner
• Ironing, steaming, and special garment care as needed
• Occasional guest room linen rotation
• Keep laundry areas tidy and well-stocked

Inventory & Errands

• Restock pantry, fridge, and household supplies
• Manage running supply lists and coordinate household orders
• Run errands as needed: returns, gift shopping, etc
• Mail and package handling; break down and recycle boxes

Vendor & Property Oversight

• Oversee and coordinate with house cleaners, contractors, and landscapers
• Manage outdoor area upkeep and readiness for entertaining

Deep Cleaning & Special Projects

• Occasional deep cleans of fridge, oven, and baseboards
• Refresh of garage, mudroom, and entryway
• Organizational projects for toys, gear, and storage areas

How to Apply

Please submit a short intro letter telling us a bit about yourself and why this role feels like a good fit, an updated resume, and 3 professional references with contact information. This role requires a background check.

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